I disagree with the first part of this video. On the issue of “cat calls” she says she dresses provocatively by choice. Websters defines provocative as: pro·voc·a·tive
: causing discussion, thought, argument, etc.
: causing sexual feelings or excitement
In essence she is choose to act as an:
agent pro·vo·ca·teurnoun \ˈä-ˌzhäⁿ-prō-ˌvä-kə-ˈtər, ˈā-jənt-\
: a person employed to encourage people to break the law so that they can be arrested
Only she did it to make the men seem like sexual predators.
DON’T confuse me saying the above with those who say that by the way a woman dresses she is asking to be raped. I’m not.
The men called her sexy, gorgeous and beautiful. None of that is threatening, abusive, or even just disrespectful. There is a huge difference between this and rape, abuse, unwanted touching, or disrespectful conversation.
Now in the second part they talk about physical harassment and also abusive language. That’s a totally different thing but as important as I feel putting an end to rape culture is and how much I hate sexual abuse in our society some times you need to just chill the fuck out. When we take things too far in the other direction we don’t make society a better place, we only further our inability as a society to get along with each other.